Vitamin See
Lots to read these days about Vitamin D deficiency and how it plays an important role in immunity. However, I know of a more dangerous deficiency that is currently plaguing the human race: we are all severely lacking in Vitamin See.
I know most of you have never even heard of Vitamin See, but it is a huge, huge, huge player in our physical health. And, as you probably can guess, is at the very heart of the feminine essence.
Would you rather be seen and loved or trusted and successful? This is the defining question David Deida refers to when exploring whether one has a feminine or masculine essence. Whatever side of the fence you land (or somewhere in between,) being seen is an absolute necessity for ALL human beings and is life-blood for the feminine essence.
Vitamin See is a no-brainer for babies and children. They demand it and we pour it on, creating an obvious positive outcome. Then we become “rational adults” and suddenly our need for Vitamin See is hung in the closet. With no map for guiding us to this critical necessity, we are all left to fend for ourselves. We either become desperate from our hunger for it, fueling competition and posturing, or pretend it’s not important, leaving us drained and depressed
The great news is Vitamin See deficiency is so easily cured it’s almost silly. There are many angles to take, but here is one of my favorites: Pick someone you know and begin recognizing a few of the many ways they show up for this wild ride. Appreciate how much courage, conviction and tenacity it has taken them to negotiate life.
Or even better, start seeing yourself. Begin writing down a few of the many decisions you have made that brought you to this very moment. There have been hundreds in the past week and millions in your lifetime thus far. Decisions are difficult to make. It has been far from easy to arrive here and you did it. Let yourself reflect, bask and soak up this truth.
I know, there is so much to see.
Over the last year and a half, I’ve had the privilege of witnessing and experiencing the mind-blowing effects of Vitamin See consciously solicited and elegantly administered. Once added back into our relationship diet, you see eyes light up, lungs exhale and peace cascade down bodies. Like a flower receiving essential sunlight and water – people simply blossom into their most beautiful potential when they are truly seen.
Our culture primarily teaches our wee ones to be trusted and successful, with minimal attention toward the art of being seen. Imagine a world that takes care of this very basic human need from birth until death in a way that is upfront, honest and clean. Wow. I have the chills just imagining all of the energy that would be unleashed to create the lives we really desire.
How do you get your Vitamin See?
Did I make even just one cell in your body smile? If so, please share this with your world (and let me know – I love to beam with appreciation 
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